3 Ways to Encourage Someone

Everyone needs encouragement from time to time.  However, statistics show that it is most needed during the Holiday Season for a host of reasons.  Here are 3 ways to encourage a loved one no matter why they are discouraged.

1. Say, "I love you and I care what happens to you."

           Depression, grief, sadness, hopelessness and all negative emotions feed on thoughts like
           no one cares and no one loves me. Silence those thoughts with the clear spoken message of
           love.  Try not follow it up with analysis, opinion or evaluation.  Make it clear that you care.
           One of my favorite verses is Song of Solomon 8:7 "Many waters cannot quench love; rivers
           cannot wash it away."(NIV)

    2.   Listen
 
          Most of us just need a sounding board.  Thoughts have a way of seeming right till they
          are spoken out loud.  Then, they are examined and can be found to be utterly ridiculous or
          accurate.  I heard someone commenting on a highly successful businessman's philosophy in
          dealing with people.  He said, "Everyone should be allowed to express what's on their mind."
          Sometimes, I can be thinking about something for days and in that cocoon world of my mind
          it seems so right.  When finally verbalized, I scratch my head and say, "I don't really believe
          that."

    3.  Give a Gift

          Because actions speak louder than words, give a gift.  It doesn't matter how big or small.  It
          doesn't even matter how expensive.  It serves as a reminder that they are loved and there is
          someone willing to do something to express that love. I'm a big fan of gift baskets.  When I
          went through cancer treatments, I became very depressed.  I came home one night to find a
          gift basket on my porch.  A heavy spirit left me and I was so touched that someone would
          show such kindness.  My basket of goodies was a daily reminder that I was loved.

          Today, I like to produce music and books that encourage people.  Everybody should have the
          assurance that they are loved and their life is important.  Give someone a gift of
          encouragement this holiday season.  It might just save their life!

          You can visit wwwlindaleeministries.org and get some gift ideas. 
          I have a Free Download of  the Song "It's a Beautiful Day"
          that can be emailed to someone you want to encourage.
          Enjoy your Holiday and let's make sure those around us do to!